Nice and Easy

The song that I am loving right now!

Let’s take it nice and easy
It’s gonna be so easy
For us to fall in love

Hey baby what’s your hurry
Relax and don’t you worry
We’re gonna fall in love

We’re on the road to romance – that’s safe to say
But let’s make all the stops along the way

The problem now of course is
To simply hold your horses
To rush would be a crime
‘Cause nice and easy does it every time

We’re on the road to romance – that’s safe to say
But let’s make all the stops along the way

The problem now of course is
To simply hold your horses
To rush would be a crime
‘Cause nice and easy does it
‘Cause nice and easy does it
‘Cause nice and easy does it every time
Nice and easy does it
Nice and easy does it
Nice and easy does it every time

Lately I find myself wondering if it is too early to be falling so quickly and deeply for my new sweetheart. How, I ask myself, can I already picture far into the future with him? I don’t have a picture of exactly what the future will look like, but I know I want him in it. โค

Strange duck that I am, I find myself asking Google for the answer ๐Ÿ˜‰ I found several articles, but I liked the one linked here:

https://www.expertrain.com/blog/happiness/signs-its-love-not-lust.htm

This article is titled “20 Signs It’s Love Not Lust” – I know the beginning of a relationship is always more intense, but I believe what my sweetie and I have is more than just physical attraction and chemistry. Since I am one that makes lists and checks boxes, here is a list of the signs. Click on the link above to read the entire article – definitely worth reading!

#1 – You show affection, even when sex isn’t on the cards. – Check

#2 – You want them to meet your family and friends. – Check

#3 – You’re happy making plans for the future. – Check

#4 – You have deep conversations. – Check

#5 – Your friends are sick of hearing about them. – ?? – Haven’t heard complaints yet.

#6 – You’re willing to go the extra mile (altering plans to see each other). – Check

#7 – You’re happy doing mundane tasks together. – Check

#8 – You can’t stop thinking about them. – Check

#9 – You care about what they want. – Check

#10 – You find their quirks charming. – ?? I find everything about him charming, so Check

#11 – You don’t notice other people as much. – Check

#12 – You’re happy doing nothing together. – Check

#13 – You’re quick to compromise. – Haven’t had to compromise, but I’m very willing to. ๐Ÿ˜‰

#14 – You re-asses your priorities (putting things off so we can spend time together). – Check

#15 – They scare the shit out of you (because they have the power to hurt you) – Scary, but I trust him ๐Ÿ™‚

#16 – You have great chemistry. – Check, Check, Check!!!!

#17 – You can’t wait to spend more time with them. – Check

#18 – You value their opinion – Check

#19 – They make you want to be a better person. – Check

#20 – You just can’t get enough. – Check

The article says, “If you can say yes to most or all of these signs, then you’re in love! If not, don’t give up just yet – sometimes love can take a while to grow between two people.”

According to this article and the others that I have read, I’m definitely on the “road to romance”. Even though those three little words haven’t been said yet, I am confident that they will be eventually โค . In the meantime, I am very much enjoying the journey and the stops along the way! “Nice and easy does it every time!”

I made this little zentangle for my sweetie โค

About Beth W.

I try to look for the positive in the people and situations I come in contact with! I believe in the power of positive thinking and I believe that even challenging circumstances can be learning experiences if we have a positive mindset! I'm having fun blogging at: http://picturingpositive.com
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15 Responses to Nice and Easy

  1. Candace says:

    โค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธโค๏ธ

  2. janieleeds says:

    So happy for you, but yes, take it slow…slow and steady…like unwrapping a gift and making it last! ๐Ÿ™‚

  3. BBYCGN says:

    I absolutely love the music of Michael Bublรฉ! I value your tips on whether itโ€™s โ€œlove or lustโ€. This is an important write up for the entire online community now and for ages to come.

  4. usfman says:

    Love as a felling would only be the beginning This might follow more with the business of love.

  5. I definitely love this postโค

  6. kagould17 says:

    Good thoughtful post Beth. You are wise to take your time. Falling in love is easy, being in love takes time and work from both sides. Doing things for each other without thought of reward, thinking of the other person first, etc. Patience is definitely worth it. As to Michael Bublรฉ, another good Canadian boy. Yes, his music is easy to take. All the best. Allan

    • Beth W. says:

      I am always grateful for your insightful comments, Allan๐Ÿ˜Š I think you are spot on about love taking time and work, but when you genuinely care about the other person, it isn’t such difficult work. ๐Ÿ˜Š All the best back to you! ๐Ÿ˜

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