Let’s take it nice and easy
It’s gonna be so easy
For us to fall in love
Hey baby what’s your hurry
Relax and don’t you worry
We’re gonna fall in love
We’re on the road to romance – that’s safe to say
But let’s make all the stops along the way
The problem now of course is
To simply hold your horses
To rush would be a crime
‘Cause nice and easy does it every time
We’re on the road to romance – that’s safe to say
But let’s make all the stops along the way
The problem now of course is
To simply hold your horses
To rush would be a crime
‘Cause nice and easy does it
‘Cause nice and easy does it
‘Cause nice and easy does it every time
Nice and easy does it
Nice and easy does it
Nice and easy does it every time
Lately I find myself wondering if it is too early to be falling so quickly and deeply for my new sweetheart. How, I ask myself, can I already picture far into the future with him? I don’t have a picture of exactly what the future will look like, but I know I want him in it. ❤
Strange duck that I am, I find myself asking Google for the answer 😉 I found several articles, but I liked the one linked here:
https://www.expertrain.com/blog/happiness/signs-its-love-not-lust.htm
This article is titled “20 Signs It’s Love Not Lust” – I know the beginning of a relationship is always more intense, but I believe what my sweetie and I have is more than just physical attraction and chemistry. Since I am one that makes lists and checks boxes, here is a list of the signs. Click on the link above to read the entire article – definitely worth reading!
#1 – You show affection, even when sex isn’t on the cards. – Check
#2 – You want them to meet your family and friends. – Check
#3 – You’re happy making plans for the future. – Check
#4 – You have deep conversations. – Check
#5 – Your friends are sick of hearing about them. – ?? – Haven’t heard complaints yet.
#6 – You’re willing to go the extra mile (altering plans to see each other). – Check
#7 – You’re happy doing mundane tasks together. – Check
#8 – You can’t stop thinking about them. – Check
#9 – You care about what they want. – Check
#10 – You find their quirks charming. – ?? I find everything about him charming, so Check
#11 – You don’t notice other people as much. – Check
#12 – You’re happy doing nothing together. – Check
#13 – You’re quick to compromise. – Haven’t had to compromise, but I’m very willing to. 😉
#14 – You re-asses your priorities (putting things off so we can spend time together). – Check
#15 – They scare the shit out of you (because they have the power to hurt you) – Scary, but I trust him 🙂
#16 – You have great chemistry. – Check, Check, Check!!!!
#17 – You can’t wait to spend more time with them. – Check
#18 – You value their opinion – Check
#19 – They make you want to be a better person. – Check
#20 – You just can’t get enough. – Check
The article says, “If you can say yes to most or all of these signs, then you’re in love! If not, don’t give up just yet – sometimes love can take a while to grow between two people.”
According to this article and the others that I have read, I’m definitely on the “road to romance”. Even though those three little words haven’t been said yet, I am confident that they will be eventually ❤ . In the meantime, I am very much enjoying the journey and the stops along the way! “Nice and easy does it every time!”

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So happy for you, but yes, take it slow…slow and steady…like unwrapping a gift and making it last! 🙂
Great analogy!!🎁 You are the best, Janie! 🙂
So are you Beth! 🙂 Perhaps we’ll all be asking you to clone him or if he has a brother! LOL In the meantime, enjoy it all because you deserve it!!!! Lots of love!!!
I absolutely love the music of Michael Bublé! I value your tips on whether it’s “love or lust”. This is an important write up for the entire online community now and for ages to come.
Isn’t he just the best?!? 🥰 Thank you so much! I really enjoyed the article and thought it might be helpful to others as well. 🙂 Thank you so very much for taking the time to leave such a nice comment😀
My pleasure! By the way, I painted some pics on a rock.
Very cool!!! I would love to see them! ❤ I find painting of any kind to be very relaxing and therapeutic ❤
Perhaps I will post them after I glaze them. 👍
That would be awesome!! 🙂
Love as a felling would only be the beginning This might follow more with the business of love.
I definitely love this post❤
Thank you so much! 😊 I am loving the anticipation of what the future will bring. 😊❤😊
Good thoughtful post Beth. You are wise to take your time. Falling in love is easy, being in love takes time and work from both sides. Doing things for each other without thought of reward, thinking of the other person first, etc. Patience is definitely worth it. As to Michael Bublé, another good Canadian boy. Yes, his music is easy to take. All the best. Allan
I am always grateful for your insightful comments, Allan😊 I think you are spot on about love taking time and work, but when you genuinely care about the other person, it isn’t such difficult work. 😊 All the best back to you! 😁